why must everything be ad absurdum?

[some_stars]

...I think the breastfeeding/infant discussion is completely ridiculous, though. YOU CAN'T BRING YOUR BABIES EVERYWHERE. Just wait a year or two, for fuck's sake. I mean, choosing to breastfeed only and without pumping is an awesome choice, but it's a CHOICE that you make that has CONSEQUENCES. You can't bring your baby to a fucking bar, either.

clarification: I am 1000% in favor of breastfeeding in public and I think it should be allowed in every place babies are allowed. I just don't think everywhere in the entire world needs to allow babies.

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[tavella]

If you wanted an aide to be with you full time during the convention, I'd expect that you would buy them a membership, and in fact VVC's policy was so last I saw.

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[ellen_fremedon]

A disabled con member who is aided with access is not "extended a privilege" - using language like that for a disabled member would be HUGELY insulting

If nursing mothers are allowed to bring their children into the con, and non-nursing mothers aren't, then childrens' access is being treated as a privilege-- which it shouldn't be; we're in agreement on that much at least.

Forgive me if this is an ignorant question-- I've never been involved with the rearing of an infant-- but can you avoid the plugged ducts, etc., if you take along a pump and express your milk regularly that way? The existence-- or potential existence; as I said, I am ignorant about how this works-- of mechanical accomodations is relevant to this conversation.

Sorry-- read the post in a hurry and didn't see you'd already written about pumping. I'm sorry that didn't work out for you.

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[(Anonymous)]

Aide means someone who assists. Your baby is not an aide. You assist the baby, it doesn't assist you.

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[some_stars]

Not okay. Also, deleted.